Is Masturbation Lust? A Truthful Look at Desire, Morality & Mind
Some people view masturbation as a lustful act and assume that it is always wrong; others believe it involves a normal bodily function and has nothing to do with sin. Certain actions often associated with masturbation are sinful and should be dealt with: lustful thoughts, inappropriate sexual stimulation, and pornography use, for example. If these problems are tackled, masturbation becomes less of a temptation. For those wondering, masturbation is lust or not, the answer may depend heavily on the intentions and context behind the act. What Is Masturbation? Masturbation, or self-pleasuring, is touching and rubbing parts of your body for sexual pleasure, such as the penis, clitoris, and vulva. It is a normal and healthy way for people to explore their bodies and find out what feels good, where and how they like to be touched, and how to achieve an orgasm. Masturbation is a normal behavior that is seen at all ages, from childhood, through the teen years and into adulthood. While it’s hard to put exact numbers on the amount of people who masturbate, some research has been done in this area. It reports that 92% of men and 79% of women between the ages of 18 and 59 have masturbated during their lifetime. What Is Lust? The definition of lust is “an intense longing” or “usually intense or unbridled sexual desire.” The word is often used in sexual contexts, but it’s often used in other ways as well. For example, a lust for power refers to an intense desire or craving for authority, control, or dominance over others. In the psychological community, lust is an intense psychological impulse that leads someone to attempt to acquire a person or object of desire. Lust is often used in a sexual context, described as an intense sexual desire that can lead to unexpected and sometimes unacceptable behavior. Some psychologists use lust interchangeably with “libido” or sex drive, describing it as a “craving” for sexual gratification associated primarily with hormones. Is Masturbation Always Connected to Lust? Is masturbating lust? That depends. Lust is not pleasure. Sometimes pleasure is experienced when a person lusts, but this is by no means always the case. Instead, lust is a form of desire. Sexual desire without respecting a person’s humanity, their consent, or their other relationships, is mainly because of objectification. Rape, and adultery are immediately ruled out as morally wrong if we believe that lust is wrong. This definition is also consistent with Jesus’ teaching that looking at a person lustfully is committing adultery in one’s heart. His Jewish culture was an orthopraxy rather than an orthodoxy: everything was about what you did rather than what you thought. But Jesus’ teaching prevented people from being able to defend their boundary-transgressing sexualized thinking with “I didn’t touch her, therefore I didn’t do anything wrong.” A person who is consumed by the “lusts of the flesh” is someone who neglects their relationship with God, the pursuit of spiritual gifts, and a good life in order to pursue these worldly things that are both insatiable and temporary. Scientific View: Is Masturbation Harmful or Normal? There are a lot of myths about masturbation, partly because many of us can feel awkward talking about it. Some people claim that masturbation is bad for you and that it can even harm your body. Masturbation is not inherently bad for you. No evidence suggests it harms your mental or physical health.Common myths about masturbation include the idea that it’ll make you go blind or that it causes impotence and infertility. There isn’t any evidence for this. However, excessive masturbation, or masturbating incorrectly, can lead to some side effects.While masturbation addiction is not a mental illness as classified by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th edition (DSM-5), it’s possible to develop an unhealthy compulsion around masturbating. Some may even ask, is masturbation considered lust if it becomes compulsive or obsessive? The answer may vary depending on one’s moral framework. It’s hard to say how much masturbating counts as excessive masturbation because it varies from person to person. Side effects of extremely frequent or improper practices For many people, masturbation is an enjoyable and pleasurable activity, and it could actually benefit your health. Brain effects Masturbation can trigger the release of certain hormones. This can have a positive effect on your mental and physical health. These hormones include: These hormones may help reduce stress and improve mood. Sleep There’s very little research on the effects of masturbation on sleep, but many people claim that masturbating helps them sleep better.And this makes sense: Because the above hormones are associated with relaxation and happiness, it’s no wonder why masturbating might help you fall asleep. Stress Endorphins, in particular, are associated with stress relief. The primary function of endorphins seems to be to reduce stress and pain. They’re often released in response to pain, but can also be released because of exercise, eating, or sex.For this reason, masturbating can be a great way to relieve stress. Self-awareness Masturbating can be a good way to connect with your body on a physical, sensual, and sexual level.It might improve your sexual experiences with other people, as you’ll know more about what you enjoy and what feels good for you. In this way, masturbation can improve your sex life. Religious and Cultural Views on Masturbation and Lust The Scripture does not explicitly say, “Thou shalt not masturbate.” However, it does speak of sexually immoral acts and about what is healthy. We know that most sexually immoral acts come from selfish, sinful desires and pain. We know that most of these acts are done secretly and have shame attached. Shame is an experience that makes you hide from God, others, and yourself. It is an individual process; it is not thinking about the marriage. It is stealing from the marriage, or if single, it is practicing sexually out of the commanded context. Because it is often done in secret, it produces shame. In addition, there is









